So, yes, I have been waiting to find an answer to this question, which may or may not resonate with any one of you. However, it should soothe the chaos going on inside my mind. I am looking for an answer that makes it possible for me to convince myself that this is what life truly is.
I am 100% sure that this would make my life journey a lot more meaningful, sooner or later. I would lead myself to the road of acceptance—accepting what it means to live and what is hidden in this process of living—so that I don't miss the real joy of living. I don't want to look back and regret that I just managed to survive and forgot that life was all about LIVING.
The answer that pops up—or, I should rather say, is jumping in my wandering mind—is "Life is a blend of PAIN & HEALING." Pain is unavoidable, and healing is inevitable. Be a little patient until I explain this to you more precisely and deeply (with the help of an example).
Suppose you get an injury, and you cannot stop the pain that follows, no matter how many painkillers you take. But the pain will eventually fade away too, at its own pace. Pain comes, it stays for a while, and eventually, it departs. You cannot force the pain to stay a little longer than it tends to, which leads us to the fact that healing is also inevitable.
As much as pain brings suffering, healing brings power and hope for our own growth. We conclude that life is neither solely defined by hardships or battles against fears, nor is it merely about searching for hope or survival. Rather, it's all about learning the art of patience by trusting the process of pain & healing. Remember, where there is pain, healing is sure to follow, signifying that life is composed of both sunsets and sunrises.
