𝗔 𝗪𝗢𝗠𝗔𝗡'𝗦 𝗧𝗥𝗨𝗧𝗛 𝗔𝗕𝗢𝗨𝗧 𝗕𝗘𝗧𝗥𝗔𝗬𝗔𝗟

 𝗣𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝟯: 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗠𝗼𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗱

𝗔 𝗪𝗢𝗠𝗔𝗡'𝗦 𝗧𝗥𝗨𝗧𝗛 𝗔𝗕𝗢𝗨𝗧 𝗕𝗘𝗧𝗥𝗔𝗬𝗔𝗟

                          𝗣𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝟮: 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗣𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝗕𝗲𝘁𝗿𝗮𝘆𝗮𝗹

When betrayal strikes, it doesn’t just break hearts; it dismantles trust and shatters the very soul of a woman. Let's confront the truth about the deep scars left behind and the courage it takes to be honest.

Engaging in such betrayal, you won’t only betray your own virtues and values, but more than anything else, you’ll betray yourself. You’ll also tear apart another human being—mentally, physically, and emotionally. 

Torture is a mere word that does not actually fit this situation at all. You need to realize that your one wrong action destroys her peace, confidence, and self-worth all together in a fraction of seconds. She’s dead in that moment, literally. Believe me or not, this wound is non-recoverable; that means healing is almost impossible.

When a woman loves you, she does so from the bottom of her heart, and the last thing she expects from you is honesty and faithfulness. But if you choose to deceive her, it not only shatters her but finishes her completely.

I would rather request you to have the decency and courage to tell her to her face that it’s over, that it isn’t working, or that you like someone else. Go and tell her straightforwardly before doing her any more wrong. Please, break her heart like this, not like that.

𝗔 𝗪𝗢𝗠𝗔𝗡'𝗦 𝗧𝗥𝗨𝗧𝗛 𝗔𝗕𝗢𝗨𝗧 𝗕𝗘𝗧𝗥𝗔𝗬𝗔𝗟

𝗣𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝟭: 𝗔 𝗣𝗹𝗲𝗮 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗛𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘁𝘆

To all the men I call friends, this isn’t just my voice—it’s the voice of every woman who's ever trusted, loved, and been torn apart. It's time to hear what we've been holding back.

Today, I choose to open up to you all, not as your dear friend but as a female. I want to convey a simple message to all of you that comes directly from my heart.

Before I begin, I request you not to misinterpret me. Rather, feel free to question me if you disagree with anything or if you have a valid counter-argument. I’m pretty sure that whatever I say won’t just be my words but probably every other female’s words to you.

Last but not least, I might sound biased throughout my entire message, yet I’m not apologetic for the same. You’ll exactly know why.

Dear men, I humbly request you all to never cheat on a woman, ever. Never dare to break her heart. Do not think you’ll become more of a man by dating more than one woman at a time, by taking her love and presence for granted, or by manipulating her trust in you or taking away her inner serenity.

She is not a fool, so don’t mess with her emotions and tolerance levels by provoking her to the point where she loses all her sense of right and wrong. She is not supposed to be treated as a toy; she deserves equal respect and power as your better half. Just because she is patient with you doesn’t mean she is allowing you to misbehave with her or tarnish her self-respect.

𝗥𝗘𝗗𝗘𝗙𝗜𝗡𝗜𝗡𝗚 "𝗛𝗢𝗧" 𝗪𝗢𝗠𝗘𝗡

When does a woman look hot? Is it when she wears revealing clothes, allows her curves to be easily noticeable, shapes her body to a size zero, puts on red lipstick along with eyeliner, or gives signals to just grab her? 

A big round of applause for all those men who fall into this category of thought process. I'm seriously very proud of you, dear men, because you didn't fail to live up to my expectations. I'm not surprised to know that this is the start and the end point to your definition of a female being hot.

Now, listen to my philosophy and then decide which one is actually hotter. Maybe, just maybe, I can provide you with a new perspective.

A woman, just by being a woman, is hot. It's that simple—no more explanation needed to justify this statement. Yet, I put forward my definitions of what it actually means to be hot.

A girl having dreams and fighting for them is hot. A girl trying to stand up to her parents' expectations and fulfill their hopes is hot. A lady who looks after her family with no complaints, besides being a working person, is hot. Every woman trying to make a difference in society is hot. 

Every woman taking a stand for another woman is hot. Every female who has fought, is fighting, or will ever fight her battles & demons all alone is hot. Every woman living with crushed desires and alot of sacrifices for her beloved ones is hot. 

Every female possessing the attitude of not giving up is hot. Every woman spreading joy and happiness all around her is hot. Every woman possessing self-love is hot.

Every woman who has the courage to face the world even after enduring heinous crimes like rape and acid attacks is hot. Every woman who just showers the most pure and divine emotion of all—love—is hot. 

Every single woman existing on this planet is hot in her own way, just the natural way: the way she is. It's about her struggles, strengths, comebacks, willpower, sacrifices, and dreams—not her clothes or curves.

Let's work together to create a world where every woman can own her hotness and celebrate her strengths, resilience, and individuality. Share your thoughts and stories of women's hotness in the comments below.

PS : I was scared—really scared—before posting this because of the fear of being judged. However, to my surprise, 10 out of 10 men whom I asked whether or not I should add it in my blog gave me a big thumbs up. So, I went ahead.

𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗣𝗢𝗪𝗘𝗥 𝗢𝗙 𝗔 𝗧𝗘𝗔𝗖𝗛𝗘𝗥: 𝗥𝗘𝗙𝗟𝗘𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡𝗦 𝗙𝗥𝗢𝗠 𝗛𝗜𝗖𝗛𝗞𝗜

Just finished watching Hichki again! And guess what it made me realize once again? The pivotal role of a teacher in crafting a student's life. 

Yes, a teacher is extremely powerful when it comes to shaping their students' lives. The movie didn't fail to bring tears to my eyes this time because I, myself, have witnessed what it feels like to be a teacher. 

What I hadn't realized until now was the immense power that comes with the title of being someone's teacher. The influence of a teacher's words and efforts decides where the student will stand when it comes to facing life in the real world.

Rani Mukherjee rightly said, "There are no bad students, only bad teachers." To have the power to change a student's life by giving them the much-needed guidance and showing them the right path—the path that is not easy to walk through but is the most righteous—feels not only overwhelming but also efficacious. 

Now, I understand why we place teachers next to God, because they genuinely have that invisible sword that can work magic and change a student forever. 

Celebrating Teacher's Day every year felt wonderful, yet it never hit me this deep about the value they hold. What if they had given up on us at any time? What if they had stopped believing in us? What if they just didn't care? And the "what ifs" just won't end because the fear is real. 

The fear of not having the "right guru" in life gives me trembles because it would have landed me to a different place, me being a different self, and who knows what I would be doing with this life. 

So, it's high time that I, you, and everyone else reading this message extend our gratitude to every teacher who has uplifted us, not lost hope in us, and passed on their strength and power to face the battles of life.

This gratitude might not always be expressed in words or necessarily communicated to our teachers, but it must be kept alive in our hearts. No matter where we reach in life (whether at rock bottom or top of the world), we should remember them, their teachings, and their efforts with a smile on our faces, drawing courage to just keep moving ahead and, of course, thanking them enough for their invaluable existence.

"We are where we are, and wherever we will be, is partly because of our teachers' epochal teachings and partly because of their good wishes and prayers."

𝗙𝗜𝗡𝗗𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗣𝗢𝗪𝗘𝗥 𝗪𝗜𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗡 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗠𝗔𝗚𝗜𝗖𝗔𝗟 𝗪𝗢𝗥𝗗

Hi readers. Today, I don't want to talk about any topic or situation or feeling but a word. Any guesses? 

Okay, I'll give you a hint. It's one of the three magical words taught in school. I'm sure many of you would have guessed it by now.

Yes, it's none other than the widely recognized 5-letter word "SORRY." But now imagine, how writing about this word came to my mind? 

I'll be honest with you, I just read a quote that touched my heart, right at the moment. "Sorry is not just a word, it's a weapon to save relationships." So now you tell me, do you really agree with this? (Answers awaited in the comments section.)

As far as my opinion goes, I strongly accord with this statement. 'Sorry' has been termed as a magical word for plenty of reasons. It possesses the power to melt down any hurt or pain caused by someone. It furthermore has the capacity to bring solace to the anger bottled up inside you. Not only does sorry has the energy to push you to accept your mistake and apologise, but it also has the potential to create hope, that may be, just may be, things can be set right. In essence, SORRY has the ability to mend what once went wrong.

Trust me when I say this, because I can vouch that the word 'Sorry' genuinely has the strength to safeguard relationships that have suffered from misunderstandings, ego, communication gaps, differences in expectations, or any other reasons that resonate with your situation or experiences.

Still don't believe me? Let's try this. I hope—or you may consider it a request—call or text someone, anyone you think you owe a sorry to. No matter how long your apology has been pending, try initiating it today itself. Not tomorrow, not the day after—today, as in right now. And then tell me whether or not it helped.

I assure you, even if the person doesn't forgive you or respond, they will definitely feel better, and so will you. You'll feel instant relief—yes, you will. The deep down, long hidden burden that you've been carrying inside you will begin to vanish. Things will become so much easier. It's only about a start from your end. If they aren't initiating contact (just in case you're waiting them to), why not you?

So, take the first step today and apologize to someone you've been meaning to. You never know the power it might hold in mending your relationship and healing hearts. Share your experiences with the power of sorry in the comments below.

Remember: Sorry is not merely a word; it's a lifesaver. Don't trust me? "खुद इस्तिमाल करे फिर विश्वास करे" (Khud istimal kre, fir vishwas kre)

𝗟𝗜𝗙𝗘'𝗦 𝗝𝗢𝗨𝗥𝗡𝗘𝗬: 𝗘𝗠𝗕𝗥𝗔𝗖𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗣𝗔𝗜𝗡 𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗛𝗘𝗔𝗟𝗜𝗡𝗚

Today in the examination hall, I asked myself a little question: "What is life?" As simple as it might seem, the answer to this question is way deeper, complicated and debatable. This little question didn't remain little once my brain started pondering over all possible answers. 

Now, while I thought and thought and thought, I just realized how all the different philosophies and quotes that I had ever read started to unsettle me. Honestly, none of them made any sense to me. Finally, it hit me that I had been lost, not today, but since the day this question popped up and my mind began to search for an appropriate answer.

So, yes, I have been waiting to find an answer to this question, which may or may not resonate with any one of you. However, it should soothe the chaos going on inside my mind. I am looking for an answer that makes it possible for me to convince myself that this is what life truly is. 

I am 100% sure that this would make my life journey a lot more meaningful, sooner or later. I would lead myself to the road of acceptance—accepting what it means to live and what is hidden in this process of living—so that I don't miss the real joy of living. I don't want to look back and regret that I just managed to survive and forgot that life was all about LIVING.

The answer that pops up—or, I should rather say, is jumping in my wandering mind—is "Life is a blend of PAIN & HEALING." Pain is unavoidable, and healing is inevitable. Be a little patient until I explain this to you more precisely and deeply (with the help of an example). 

Suppose you get an injury, and you cannot stop the pain that follows, no matter how many painkillers you take. But the pain will eventually fade away too, at its own pace. Pain comes, it stays for a while, and eventually, it departs. You cannot force the pain to stay a little longer than it tends to, which leads us to the fact that healing is also inevitable. 

As much as pain brings suffering, healing brings power and hope for our own growth. We conclude that life is neither solely defined by hardships or battles against fears, nor is it merely about searching for hope or survival. Rather, it's all about learning the art of patience by trusting the process of pain & healing. Remember, where there is pain, healing is sure to follow, signifying that life is composed of both sunsets and sunrises.